It is actually easy to get what you want, well, what you think you want…

There are thousands of law of attraction coaches out there, promising to help you get what you want. And I can tell you now – this is actually the easy part!

But you know what’s worse than success and getting what you want?

Getting what you want and still being unfulfilled and unhappy.

I’ve been there – and trust me it’s not worth all the blood, sweat and tears to strive ambitiously and hastily for what your ‘ego’ tells you that you think you need to be happy. You are wasting your precious time. Please don’t make the same mistake as I did…

I thought living in a beach house in ‘paradise’, lying in the sun everyday, living in my favourite holiday destination, sipping coconuts, not needing to work, chilling with my friends and loved ones and being totally free time wise, would make me happy. And you know what? I got my ‘dream’ and after a short while of doing nothing but this everyday, I never felt so empty, lost and miserable in my life! After 2 years of this I gave it all up and surrendered my life to a higher power – who knew a whole lot more than little me on what will truly light me up and ignite my soul.

Surrender to your higher power and let it guide you to a great, meaningful life that is beyond your limited desires.

Total surrender is the key! Be still, silent and take time out in solitude. Allow that divine voice inside you to whisper what it is that you are really put on this planet for. No amount of money, cars, houses and beach side holidays will make you achieve long term lasting fulfilment. You will eventually think, realise and ask yourself ‘Is there more to life?” You will want a life of meaning and divine purpose… more than just greedy ambition.

Sometimes what naturally flows into your life and your guided actions may not appear to be what you ‘want’ – but just let it unfold as it will probably end up leading you to a place and a journey that is beyond what your wildest imagination thought was possible. Even if what is naturally unfolding seems to be ‘nothing’ or a big dramatic pause in your life, that’s ok – allow this to happen, as it is exactly what is needed in the moment. It is needed for your body, mind and spirit to prepare and get ready for what will come. The key is to become available for what is coming to you and then respond to life as it happens naturally. Don’t initiate with limited mind, it will continue misguiding and you will fall into a vicious cycle and wheel of false temporary desires that will never truly satisfy you in the end.
Create the space in your life to allow and be able to receive and respond to life appropriately as it comes.
 

The biggest skill to learn is actually TRUST. Trusting the process.

 
Most of us don’t know what is that we actually want. And the ones that do, are usually dissatisfied when they finally achieve their goal as, after the initial high, it’s still not giving them that deep lasting contentment they are yearning for.

Think of it this way – you are trying to figure out you want with a limited mind and sensory input capacity. There is a whole other world out there that we can’t even see! What if I told you there was a powerful Source that could see pathways for you that you cannot even conceive because you still contained in a human body? There is an unlimited, unbounded and infinite Divine Intelligence out there – wanting to express facets of itself through you. And here we are filling our minds with things (that have actually been programmed into us through society, government and media) that we think we need and want.
 

How could we possibly know the vastness of the infinite possibilities when we ourselves are bounded by time and space?

 
This is why very few people (even multi-billionaires) are genuinely fulfilled or happy. Because we are so disconnected and lost that we have completely forgotten who we are, why we are here and how to connect to this limitless infinite Source power that can truly liberate us and set us free.

So instead of demanding from the universe what it is, and who it is that you think you want – what if it was better to ask something like this instead:

“Dear Universe, how blessed and blissed can I feel today? I am open to your delightful surprise and I surrender to your good will knowing that only you know what is best for me and my highest good. What magic can be created? Lets play!”
 

Become spontaneous, embrace uncertainty, embody flexibility and enjoy change to really live and feel happy.

 
So when people personally ask me questions like: “What do you want to do today or in a years time?” or “Who do you want to spend it with?” or “How will you do it?” etc, I simply smile and gratefully respond with “I don’t know!

Why restrict the limitless possibilities of infinite expression? Isn’t the ultimate contribution to the world, allowing yourself to be most alive and present at every moment? A programmed drone, trying to constantly control and gratify its ego isn’t helping anybody!

Open your connection to that inner guidance and heart driven space again.

To feel, to listen, to receive its guidance and tune into what will truly serve you and that you also innately love to do. It’s about starting to listen again, feel and tune into what it is that you truly want from a higher plane, and starting to say yes to it… And starting to move towards that vision by tuning into your inner voice, that is always going to guide you on the steps you need to take to get there.

Life isn’t about pushing and forcing and making stuff happen, it’s about surrendering, letting go and letting the ‘how’ be revealed to you and following it step by step, moment by moment.

Love and Light, Ra

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